I knew a Good Girl (Asha – name changed) from a Devote Family; Once her mother asked me if I know any Good Bachelor, but I politely denied saying I can do anything other than Match making.
Last month when I went to India, I met one of my old friend Ozy, now USA settled, asked me if I know any Good Girl for his Friend, a Doctor, soon moving to UK.
As I was having Ashas photo in my mobile I showed him, he asked me to share, but I refused. But I told them Ashas first name only without surname. I told she has some skin issues if its ok with Doctor, he said he has no problem but Girl should be Good.
I told them the truth that she is open minded outgoing lady, and she only told she was having a Friend in her earlier work place. They asked me more details, but I was not having much than Ashas ex friends name; I said I can give his Facebook account link.
I clearly told them, I will not give Ashas parents details unless they are comfortable with her past, and not to blame me later.
They wanted to find out how serious past hookup is?
And they are still in contact or not.
As I have not given much details, I thought they have forgotten about it. One month passed and I came back to my work place, Kuwait.
There was no chance they can contact her, as I have not given anything other than 1st name of Asha and they took Ashas photos photo from my mobile, as I refused to share.
When I met her last week, I noticed her behavior changed, I repeatedly asked but she refused, saying, she is normal. i was not sure that they contacted her, as i totally forgotten about the proposal.
Next days I found her irritated more for something.
I was totally confused what’s going on, as for every word she was bouncing back to me, name calling is another common thing if she is angry.
On Wednesday, all of a sudden she started to ask, if I told anyone about her past, and first time she used word Boyfriends, asking if I have any problem with her boyfriends.
I was like, struck by lightning, unaware what’s going on.
That’s night Ozy messaged me, just one line; how is your Girl doing?
I replied, I was like a punching bag, she took me left right asking if I told anyone about her past and Boyfriends.
[Some events happened without my knowledge and I came to know when everything was over but I will write what had happened]
Ozy and Doctor has only Ashas 1st name and her ex-Boyfriends Facebook Account, they asked one of their lady colleague, Major in psychology and an Counsellor help them out.
Let’s call ex-Boyfriend as Abhijit.
Counsellor sent a one line message from her Facebook account to Abhijit Facebook.
Message was “Ashas said you Finish in less than 2 minutes”
Panicked Abhijit Blocked her Account from sending him farther messages.
I think that’s on Wednesday, I was taken for a ride and made me punching bag. Coz it’s clear that they are still in contact.
Immediately after message Abhijit contacted Asha and asked if she told anyone about their meetings.
With one message they solved mystery that there was Affair and still in contact, even Abhijit is now married.
For one day Counsellor Account was blocked by Abhijit, later unblocked it and sent another message. “Why are troubling us, when we are settled somewhere”
After this Counsellor told Doctor, not to continue with this proposal, still she replied, requesting, we are just trying to avoid Future trouble, Divorce etc.
but short headed Abhijit, may be prompted by Asha keep on shouting, insulting and replying with BAD words, F# words, so now its Counsellor personal fight as Sting Operation was already over.
For that Counsellor replied. “She is Ashas mother trying to find out the truth, as she do not want her marriage to be Broken because of her silly mistake”
For that Abhijit replied, “Sorry Aunty I was not aware, it’s you, she is not even my Girlfriend”
Hurt by Ashas banging, I stopped reading any of her messages. I wanted to tell Ozy when he call next time that forget about Asha. And same day on Saturday he called and said, doctor found his missing rib.
But by then Counsellor already replied to Abhijit to his earlier message, “We know, you both were meeting, let us know how many times you both met privately, we have an Eye witness”
By then the whole sting operation was over still Abhijit replied “Ask your eye witness”
Now doctor knew what he wanted to find out.
Points to be noted:
Why Abhijit was panicked ? if there was nothing between them
They proved, even Abhijit is married they are still in contact.
I nowhere told about Ashas full name or any details about her.
I just wanted to help.
Unless she stop contacting her past, and Block their Ids, Past will come back and haunt even after the marriage.
NOW YOU KNOW, WHO DUG WHO’S GRAVE and the TRUTH is.
Message to Abhijit. PLEASE, Dont spoil someone else life. else it will haunt you back.
Punch line is “Finish in less than 2 minutes”
As i was not comfortable with any Match making, after all, Blame comes those who recommend both parties, as every marriage has some problem, at some point of time. In above episode also, my part was very less, still in Ashas eyes I AM A BAD MAN, but whatever i have done, is in Good intentions only, not to hurt anyone; At last i can only say SORRY. hope she will understand.
For me its a lesson learnt, Here after i never ever involve in anyone Match making, coz this one is Match fixing for me.